In this episode of the Conceive Baby podcast, I welcome Joanna Sampieri, a courageous advocate and leader in the fertility community known for her honest account of her own fertility journey. Joanna’s openness about her multiple IVF attempts, the decision to use donor eggs, and the ultimate joy she has found in motherhood, inspires thousands of women grappling with fertility and IVF uncertainties.
Joanna discusses the complex world of IVF and donor conception as she opens up about her own journey to motherhood, which began at age 43. Amidst the challenging backdrop of COVID-19, Joanna openly discusses the trials faced, including several failed IVF cycles and the emotional aftermath of a pregnancy loss.
Joanna’s decision to use donor eggs overseas marked a pivotal turning point. She shares practical insights into sourcing donor eggs and the process of integrating international IVF treatment. Her experience highlights the significance of epigenetics, the selection process for a donor, and the support from professionals that facilitated their path to parenthood. Joanna’s story is one of resilience, courage, and the unwavering love that defines family beyond genetics.
Key Takeaways:
- Navigating Fertility Challenges: Joanna Sampieri’s journey involved numerous IVF cycles and the emotional toll of fertility struggles, showcasing the resilience required to persevere.
- Decision for Donor Eggs: Her pivotal moment came with the decision to use donor eggs, a choice met with emotional and logistical challenges but ultimately resulting in two healthy children.
- Overseas IVF during COVID-19: The process of selecting a clinic abroad during the pandemic presented unique obstacles including travel logistics and managing cycles remotely.
- Mindset and Support: Joanna emphasizes the critical role of mental health support, open communication with her partner, and setting aside quality time to maintain a strong relationship amidst fertility treatments.
- Motherhood Beyond Genetics: Joanna reflects on her profound love for her children conceived with donor eggs, asserting that genetics do not define family.
Notable Quotes:
- “I look at Charles and Chiara, and I wouldn’t change a thing. I literally would not want my own eggs to have worked because I wouldn’t have this beautiful boy and beautiful girl.”
- “Most women go through 3, 4, 8 collections, 5, 6 transfers before they get their baby. It’s not a guarantee, unfortunately.”
- “Family is not defined by genetics; it’s created out of love.”
- “If you’re on the fence, just do it. Time is ticking, and in your heart of hearts, you know when it’s time to move forward.”
- “There’s no way in the world that you can look at this baby that you carry and not love it a thousand million percent, if not more, because you know what you sacrificed for them.”
RESOURCES:
- Joanna’s Instagram – @ivf_mumma_tribe
- Tasha’s Fertility over 40 Guide – https://tashajennings.com.au/fertilityover40/